IAN KERNER

An indispensable guide for straight men by an expert sex therapist how to have great sex and make your partner happy

Mujeres de todo el mundo afirman que, cuando se habla de lo que el hombre comprende la sexualidad femenina, la mayoría de ellos saben más de lo que hay debajo del capó de su coche que de lo que es el clitoris.A pesar de la preocupacion que para los hombres supone conseguir que su pareja alcance el orgasmo, muchos no se atreven a preguntar que tienen que hacer, y lo tenian en ''la punta de la lengua''.En este libro el misterio de como conseguir la satisfaccion femenina queda resuelto y se dan multiples pruebas, instrucciones paso a paso y consejos a los hombres sobre la valiosa arma que tienen: la lengua. En un tono divertido, informativo y facil de leer, esta obra es una enciclopedia virtual del placer femenino. Por mucho que sepa un hombre sobre este tema, todos deberian leerla porque seguro que aprenderan algo mas.

No importa tu look ni tu edad, no importa si estás soltera o casada, si estás preparando tu tercera cita o la número tres mil. Tu gran baza no es ni tu belleza ni tu cuerpo, sino tu inteligencia y tu conocimiento de la psicologia sexual masculina. Lo que pretende este libro es que te conviertas en la mujer de la que estan hechos los sueños; ni mas ni menos. Es hora de aprender que es lo que excita a los hombres. Este libro no pretende enseñarte trucos o tecnicas sexuales infalibles, o no solamente. Su objetivo es mucho mas ambicioso: se trata de adoptar un nuevo modo de ser y de pensar.Ellos llegan despues abarca la sexualidad masculina desde todos los angulos posibles, ilumina las principales practicas sexuales y ofrece respuestas a las dudas mas frecuentes de las mujeres. Ademas, hara que te metas como nunca en la piel de un hombre y sepas lo que de verdad le estimula sexualmente -si, felacion incluida-. Es la guia para mujeres inteligentes y con ganas de disfrutar al maximo de su sexualidad junto a su pareja.

Renowned sex therapist Ian Kerner shares the unique and indispensable methodology he uses to help thousands of couples get unstuck and into sexual sync."Combining decades of clinical research and real peoples stories, this elucidating guidebook is a must-read for anyone interested in creating a richer, deeper romantic life. There is warmth, compassion and clarity on every page." Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone Dr. Ian Kerner is a Sherlock Holmes of the bedrooma sexual detective helping individuals and couples solve the mystery of their sexual distress. His secret weapon? Anaylzing your sex script. Kerner takes a magnifying glass to a recent sexual event, examining the entire sequence of interactionsbeginning, middle, and endfrom multiple angles. In those detailsthe what, where, when, and why of the last time you had sexall the clues of what went wrong are revealed and the mystery of how to create mutual pleasure can be solved. When our sex scripts work, we lose ourselves in mutual pleasure; but when they fail, its all we can do not to ruminate over the details. What can be learned by looking at your sex life in action? With wit and warmth, the nationally recognized sex therapist and author of the smash hit She Comes First shows readers how to tap into their erotic personalities and realize their sexual potential. Dr. Kerner provides the tools and techniques you need to assess, fix, and expand your sex scripts, as well as discuss many common sexual problems that get in the way of happy endings. With the help of decades of clinical insight, the latest sexual science and research, valuable homework assignments, case studies, and more, this insightful and original book strips away discomfort and offers couples not just the ability to talk about sex, but the ability to actually do something about it. From breaking out of a sex rut to managing mismatched libidos, Ian Kerner is at the forefront of giving us fresh sexy solutions to classic sex problems. Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity Ian Kerners book is refreshingly informative. His compassion and kindness gently disarm shame, promoting the kind of communication and self-interrogation that are, ultimately, key to experiencing joy in sex. Peggy Orenstein, New York Times bestselling author of Girls & Sex and Boys & Sex

From the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and Be HonestYoure Not That Into Him Either comes a revolutionary 30-day program to detoxify and rejuvenate your love lifeFor many of uswhether were in a relationship or actively dating in the hopes of finding that special someoneour love lives have become a source of toxicity. Sex Recharge offers a new way to start fresh and take action. In this practical, life-changing guide, Ian Kerner lays out a friendly, achievable 30-day course of action to help you rebuild your love life from the inside out. Whether youre single or coupled, Sex Recharge will enable you to achieve the relationship results you deserve.

Are you a victim of a crime of the heart?Is your relationship an unsolved mystery?Its time to analyze the Dating DNA.In this hilarious and helpful handbook, best-selling author Ian Kerner introduces us to the DSI team, a top-secret unit within the FBI (thats the Federal Bureau of Intimacy) whose sole mission is to investigate dating dilemmas and equip you with the skills you need so youre never again a dating victim.Through humorous and engaging case studies, youll read about boyfriends who might be gay, gamers who wont step up to the plate, and wimps who wont go down for the count. Youll meet Dating DUPEs (Desperately Under Pressure to Evaluate) and their antagonistic ARSEs (Anti-Relationship Suspect Examinees). Youll gain unprecedented access to previously classified relationship rap sheets: detailed reports that reveal interpersonal infractions, mating misdemeanors, and flirtatious felonies. Youll boldly go where no civilian has gone before as we apply the latest forensic tools to decipher complex dating data: From testing for SPARK (Sexual Potential and Romantic Kinship), to consulting with undercover agents in the MBU (Missing Boyfriends Unit), Kerner ventures above the law and beneath the covers.Because in the end . . . the love life you save may be your own.

Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never "the one," but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married -- you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.The world is full of sensational women, but in todays market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love, "with a great guy who is into you." So raise your standards -- and reach for the love you deserve!

Transform Yourself from "Passion Victim" to Passionista!In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual "ill-cliteracy," and women everywhere benefited from his "viva la vulva" philosophy of female pleasure. Now, in Passionista, its time to learn all about what turns men on and makes them stay on. In this point-by-point, "blow-by-blow" sex guide for women, Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality, unlocks the secrets of satisfaction, and offers knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about. His advice is the closest youll ever come to waking up in a guys skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick.Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest so popular, Passionista is the empowered womans guide to mastering male pleasure and enjoying sex to the fullest.This witty, insightful, and utterly readable book reveals the knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about:Male Orgasm: Go beyond the basics to understand what truly makes him tick, including the difference between a local and global orgasm. Sexual Communication: Learn how to talk about fantasies and desires in a way that builds excitement and intimacy, not anxiety. Erotic Creativity: Move past routine with the authors shaky bridge approach to sex, offering point-by-point advice on keeping passion alive for the long term. Fellatio and Manual Stimulation: Discover the hands-on (and hands-off) techniques that make giving as much fun as receiving. Building Desire: Unlock the brain chemistry of attraction and learn how to turn him on long before you get to the bedroom.

JUST SAY O! Have flannel pj s replaced your silky negligees? Are you more likely to nod off cuddling the remoteinstead of your partner? Are you too tired for sex? Is foreplay becoming boreplay? Sure, being comfortable in your relationship is great. You can finish each others sentences, love your partners extra ten pounds, and know just the right buttons to push in bed (or at least think you do). But too much comfort can strip your sex life of its XXX rating and render your love life . . . lifeless. New York Times bestselling author and nationally recognized sex counselor Ian Kerner and vivacious television personality Lisa Rinna, who spoke candidly about rediscovering her own lost libido in her New York Times bestseller Rinnavation, are on a mission to help you get from no-go to the Big O. Mind-blowing sex is just pages away! Turn down the lights and cozy up under the sheets with this intimate bedside guide to igniting your mojo. Overflowing with candid advice, tips, techniques, personal revelations, sexercises, and even a ten-step plan guaranteed to rejuvenate your relationship and keep you and your partner coming back for more, The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book proves that knowledge isnt just powerits also pleasure! Now, lets have some fun! *** HE SAYS: What happens outside the bedroom affects what happens in the bedroom, and when couples are connected intimately, their relationship can be more vital and stronger than they ever imagined. SHE SAYS: Dont underestimate a real woman. You want to know about great sex? Ill show you great sex. You want a cougar? Ill give you a tigress! Im just show you great sex. You want a cougar? Ill give you a tigress! Im just reaching my peak, and I feel sexier than everand so can you! ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO GET THE SEX LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED!* Sexy scenarios and hot new moves to amp up the adventure! * The best sexual positions to make you climax * Confidence boosters that make you feel sexier than ever and bring out your inner thrill-seeker * Oral sex and hand job tips that will make his body go nuclear * Fixes for common bedroom problems such as low desire, mismatched libidos, and sexual boredom * Tips for coping with sexual male-functions such as premature ejaculation, erectile disorder, and a propensity for porn * The ten-step sex workout * The most amazing sex of your lifeat any age, even after kids!

Sex. After. Baby.These three words are spoken in hushed voices over playdates and at playgrounds. But while we may whisper them to our closest girlfriends, or joke about them after one too many beers with the guys, when it comes to talking with our partners about whats really going on (or not going on, as the case may be) in our child-proofed bedrooms, more and more of us find ourselves tongue-tied and tiptoeing. Are you part of the "sleepless, sexless" club?You just might be, if Youd rather just go to bed than go to bed with your partner. The mind-blowing sex you once had now just blows. The TV is turned on more than you are. A playdate sounds better to you than yet another bad date night. The baby gets more kisses and cuddles than you do. Youre beaten down from always having to initiate sex. Foreplay has become chore-play. "Lets get it on" are now fighting words. But it doesnt have to be this way. According to bestselling author Ian Kerner, Ph.D., and "naughty mommy" Heidi Raykeil, it really is possible to do the hokey pokey and keep up the hanky panky. Ian and Heidi often bring very different perspectives, but they agree that sex matters . . . a lot. Its the glue that holds couples together and keeps lovers from becoming simply roommates or co-parents. Funny and frank, Love in the Time of Colic will help parents take the charge out of this once-taboo subject, and put it back where it belongsin the bedroom.

"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." AskMen.comThe essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring womenAs women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of this must-read sex guide, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kernersex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasmoral sex isnt just foreplay, its coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.Fun, informative, and full of practical sex advice, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.This essential guide for men breaks down the art of female pleasure:A New Philosophy of Sex: Discover why author and sex therapist Ian Kerner believes oral sex shouldnt be foreplay, but coreplaythe center of mutual satisfaction. Guide to Cunnilingus: Learn dozens of tried-and-true techniques, moving beyond guesswork to master the art of pleasuring a woman every time. Understanding Female Anatomy: An easy-to-read breakdown of the clitoris, the G-spot, and the keys to the female orgasm, written to make you an expert. Better Sex Life: Move past performance anxiety and ill-cliteracy with a fun, informative, and shame-free approach to ensuring she comes first.