ASK ME HOW IT WORKS

Deepa is the epitome of a woman living in her power Ask Me How It Works provides a stunningly vulnerable and poetic glimpse into her most intimate spaces and through her journey to sexual liberation If this book doesn t change your perspective on relationships nothing will GILLIAN ANDERSON Here is my husband Here is my boyfriend Here I am In the early hours of dawn in Amsterdam Deepa Paul rises from her boyfriend s bed She gets dressed slips away with a kiss and cycles home where she is welcomed into the arms of her husband whose contentment is mellow alongside her own There isn t a glimmer of shame deception or guilt only the honesty and compassion needed to make this kind of life possible even if it wasn t always this easy You might have questions Whose idea was it What are the rules Are you ever jealous In this memoir Deepa offers her answers openly and tenderly as she explores the truth to questions of her own Can I ask for what I want and still honour the life I have chosen Do I deserve it Is it worth it Unexpectedly relatable and joyfully vibrant this is one woman s story of discovering her own desires and how to liberate them of shifting identities from mother to lover and back again and of finding the courage to ask for the mar