CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD

Planning a date doesnt have to be a production, but it should have some thought behind it. A lot of my guy friends would get really excited for their date, but then always end up pulling from the same grab bag of dates they always did. If youre going to ask a girl out you should plan something that shows youre actually excited to be there with her. It doesnt take much, just a little pre-planning. Thats where this book comes in. It can be hard coming up with a good date on your own. The lines between trite, original, and tried-too-hard are painfully thin,which is why I compiled my best dates in this book. Theyre probably not what might come to mind right away when planning a date, and thats the point. There are a variety of different ideas that cover a lot of Boston, and a lot of them are adaptable to whatever location works for you. I came up with these ideas from dates I went on or from friend dates, and the reason they work is because theyre all things you could do with a friend and theyd still be the fun. Thats the trick. You may click, and you may not. But if you take the weight off and approach it like youre just going to hang out, at least youll have a good time. So take these ideas, do the leg work and forethought required of a good date, and make it yours. You dont have to tell her Im providing you with the idea, because youre making it happen._,