HOW TO OUTSMART A NARCISSIST

It might be surprising to learn that the emotional qualities that allow you to remain close to others empathize collaborate compromise perspective take and easily resolve conflict in most healthy relationships can actually backfire with a toxic person Why Because you see the good You trust You empathize You take things on the chin for the betterment of the group These emotionally intelligent attributes serve you well with non narcissists and allow you to remain close and connected to others They may also help you resolve conflict amicably and maintain healthy relationships Yet with a narcissist these EI features are often manipulated and exploited Unfortunately a narcissist typically garners your trust before they do anything else Once they have it however they abuse it by unscrupulously working behind your back against you Before you realize what is happening they have quickly convinced you that you are the real problem in the relationship In the absence of a solid education about your vulnerabilities regarding this dynamic and specific emotionally intelligent strategies to inoculate the narcissist you may endure an inhumane amount of emotional abuse in almost every area of your life work dating marital and familial This book will