HARVILLE HENDRIX

Si sueña con encontrar una pareja amorosa totalmente compatible, debe saber que ese deseo brota de los aspectos humanos más sanos y plenos de su propia naturaleza. Sea cual fuere su historia y las veces que haya pasado por una decepcion amorosa, se encuentra usted, que en este momento esta solo, en una posicion ideal para aprender lo que necesita saber para encontrar y mantener el amor de su vida. Con calidez, sabiduria y profesionalidad, Harville Hendrix señala los cambios positivos que . puede introducir en su vida para lograr el amor duradero que busca. Con Como desarrollar una relacion consciente aprendera a: * Identificar si Imago, es decir, la pareja de fantasia que ha elegido para usted en su mente inconsciente. * Romper con las pautas de matrimonio que heredo de sus padres y que ha interiorizado inconscientemente como el unico modelo aceptable de relacion. * Reconocer los asuntos inacabados de su infancia, que pueden ser transformados en una relacion consciente. * Aprender a beneficiarse de las relaciones del pasado * Practicar nuevas habilidades de relacion. * Lograr el amor maduro, nutritivo y duradero capaz de enriquecer inconmensurablemente su vida.

Pasamos por la vida con la ilusión -y la convicción- de que hemos encontrado o vamos a encontrar a la pareja perfecta, aquella que nos completará y nos hará totales. Nos dejamos arrastrar por la intensa experiencia de un amor romantico que suele terminar en matrimonio, pero la pasion, pronto da paso al desencanto. Entonces, los rasgos negativos de nuestra pareja -aquellos que se habian ocultado durante la fase romantica de la relacion- empiezan a surgir, iniciandose la siempre desagradable lucha por el poder. El encanto se convierte a menudo en odio, en causa de daño, y optamos por tomar soluciones drasticas como el divorcio o la busqueda de la felicidad fuera del matrimonio. El doctor Harville Hendrix nos ofrece en esta obra didactica y practica las claves para crear un matrimonio consciente o, lo que es lo mismo, una relacion en la que los periodos de calma sucedan a los de turbulencia, analizando y aprendiendo de nuestros propios errores. Como señala el autor, un matrimonio consciente nunca es una linea recta. Habra momentos de gran alegria e intimidad y otros de desviaciones, de regresion. Con la ayuda de los ejercicios practicos de este manual podemos ir construyendo cada dia, paso a paso, el amor de nuestra vida porque este se encuentra escondido en el interior de nosotros mismos y para ser amados tenemos que ser antes amorosos.

En sus bestsellers Conseguir el amor de tu vida y Cómo desarrollar una relación consciente el Dr. Harville Hendrix ha iluminado el camino hacia una relación sana, llena de amor. Ahora con Helen Hunt, su esposa y coautora de este libro, nos hace llegar una nueva comprension del amor mas profundo, ayudando a los padres a alimentar su propio desarrollo al tiempo que refuerzan la integridad emocional de sus hijos. Este libro innovador ofrece una oportunidad unica para la transformacion personal. A traves de la resolucion de problemas que se originaron en nuestra infancia podemos conseguir tener una relacion consciente y, en consecuencia, mas sana con nuestros hijos, independientemente de su edad. Harville Hendrix y Helen Hunt nos ayudan a explorar: * La Imago: la pareja imaginaria que nuestra mente inconsciente construye a partir de las personas que amamos en nuestra infancia, y que ha guiado nuestra busqueda de una pareja. * Los padres Maximizadores y Minimizadores: los estilos defensivos que dan forma internamente a lo que decimos a nuestro hijos y al modo en que interactuamos con ellos. * Un Proceso de Crianza que ayuda a poner fin al -la transmision de las heridas que recibimos de niños- mientras criamos a nuestros propios hijos. * La Seguridad, Apoyo y Estructura -como dar a los niños lo que realmente necesitan de nosotros. * La Adultez Moldeadora: utilizar nuestro sentido del yo ya sanado como modelo para nuestros hijos. Con otras aproximaciones practicas y reflexivas que pueden ayudar a dar forma al vinculo padres-hijos, El amor que cura nos proporciona las claves para ayudar a nuestros hijos a ser personas sanas, responsables y cariñosas.

From the New York Times bestselling author of Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find comes illuminating and inspiring advice on one of the most complicated issues facing couples today: receiving love.Many people know how to give love, but many more undermine their relationships by never having learned how to accept it. We dont always realize the ways in which we reject appreciation, affection, help, and guidance from our romantic partners. According to Hendrix and Hunt, until we are able to understand the meaning behind our behavior, our relationships stand to suffer.Receiving Love prompts questions such as:-Are you reluctant to tell your partner what you really want or need? -When you do get what youve asked for, do you still feel dissatisfied? -Is it difficult for you to accept kind gestures, gifts, or compliments from your partner?With Receiving Love, you can learn how to break the shackles of self-rejection and embrace real intimacy. Drawing on their renowned expertise, the wide clinical experience of Imago therapists, and their own personal experience as a married couple, the authors offer detailed, sensitive advice on how to turn a relationship between two well-meaning yet misunderstood individuals into a true, everlasting partnership.

A companion workbook to the critically acclaimed relationship book Receiving Love: Transform Your Relationship by Letting Yourself Be Loved In 2004, Harville Hendrix and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, co-creators of Imago Relationship Therapy, authored Receiving Love, a critically acclaimed guide to cultivating a loving, long-lasting relationship that Publishers Weekly called "intelligent and insightful . . . wise and sophisticated." Now, in the Receiving Love Workbook, Hendrix and Hunt have constructed a companion to that groundbreaking book in which they outline a simple, practical plan that will help you to apply the advice and exercises in Receiving Love to your own relationship. Receiving Love showed that while many men and women know how to give love, many more undermine their relationships by never having learned how to accept it. The Receiving Love Workbook will help you and your partner to explore the effect that this type of self-rejection has had in your individual lives and in your relationship as a couple. It contains a unique twelve-week course designed to help you work through the exercises in Receiving Love. It provides the same step-by-step instructions and examples that couples who participate in a couples workshop or work with an Imago Relationship Therapist would experience. For those who are ready to take specific steps to surmount the self-rejection and heal its causes, the Receiving Love Workbook will help you to make the changes that will establish an easy, natural pattern of giving and receiving love and that will create the relationship of your dreams.

This newly revised and updated companion study guide to the 2019 edition of the New York Times bestseller Getting the Love You Want.In 1988, Harville Hendrix, in partnership with his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, published a terrifically successful relationship guide called Getting the Love You Want. The book introduced thousands to their Imago Relationship Therapy, a unique healing process for couples, prospective couples, and parents, and developed into an overnight sensation. For their part, Doctors Hendrix and Hunt managed to aid scores of couples in their plight for more loving, supportive, and deeply satisfying relationships. Now, more than a decade later, this companion book picks up where its predecessor left off, delving further into relationship therapy to help transform relationships into lasting sources of love and companionship.The Getting the Love You Want Workbook is designed for the hundreds of thousands of couples who have attended Imago workshops since Getting the Love You Want hit bookstands, as well as new and curious ones seeking a practical route back to intimacy and passionate friendship. The workbook contains a unique twelve-week course (The New Couples Study Guide) designed to help work through the exercises published in Part III of Getting the Love You Want.For those of us struggling to maintain our most precious relationships, the Getting the Love You Want Workbook helps us grow aware of our individual, unconscious agenda while steering us towards a more harmonious link with our loved ones that will satisfy our deepest needs.

Change the relationship you have into the one you want.Welcome to the Relationship Revolution! Making Marriage Simple is the accessible, essential road map to building a strong marriage in the modern world. Bestselling authors Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt distill into ten essential truths what theyve learned about how to create a successful and satisfying relationshipboth from their decades of R&D in the marriage lab of their workshops, and from their own relationship journey. In each chapter, Harville and Helen introduce a simple truthsuch as a frustration is a wish in disguise, incompatibility is grounds for marriage, or conflict is growth trying to happenand then walk couples through easy yet effective exercises to help them apply each truth in real life, every day. Harville and Helen have spent their careers helping couples transform their marriages through research, workshops, and counseling. But marriageeven for marriage expertsis never easy, and a number of years ago they found themselves on the brink of divorce. Harville and Helen put themselves back through the exercises theyd coached so many other couples through, saving their marriage and helping them achieve a true partnership.This book is for all couples. It offers the practical tools needed to transform ones relationship into a rewarding and joyous marriage. Written with humor, compassion, and honesty, and illustrated throughout with engaging line drawings, Making Marriage Simple is a strategic blueprint for creating a stronger, more satisfying partnership in todays world.

Welcome to the Relationship Revolution! Making Marriage Simple is the accessible, essential road map to building a strong marriage in the modern world. Leading relationship experts Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt distil into 10 essential truths what they have learned about how to create a successful and satisfying relationship from their counselling and workshops with married couples, their own 30-year relationship and decades of research. Harville and Helen have spent their careers helping couples transform their marriages. But marriage, even for marriage experts, is never easy, and a number of years ago they found themselves on the brink of divorce. Harville and Helen used their own tried-and-tested exercises they had coached so many couples through and in doing so saved their marriage. Written with humour, compassion and honesty, Making Marriage Simple will give all couples the practical tools they need to foster a rewarding marriage.

With more than 170,000 copies sold, Wired for Love is the complete "insider's guide" to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing new research drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this highly anticipated second edition presents the ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship. This fully revised and updated edition includes new guidance on how to manage disagreements, as well as new exercises to help readers create safety and security, establish healthy conflict ground rules, and deal with the threat of the third-any outside source which threatens the harmony in a relationship, including in-laws, alcohol, children, and affairs.