Terrence Real

Cómo pasar del «yo» al «nosotros» en un mundo cada vez más individualista y así mantener relaciones de pareja fuertes y estables.BESTSELLER del NEW YORK TIMES, THEWALL STREET JOURNAL y USA TODAY«Este

Cómo pasar del «yo» al «nosotros» en un mundo cada vez más individualista y así mantener relaciones de pareja fuertes y estables.BESTSELLER del NEW YORK TIMES, THE WALL STREET JOURNAL y USA TODAY «Es

A bestseller for over 20 years, I Dont Want to Talk About It is a groundbreaking and hopeful guide to understanding and destigmatizing male depression, essential not only for men who may be suffering but for the people who love them.Twenty years of experience treating men and their families has convinced psychotherapist Terrence Real that depression is a silent epidemic in menthat men hide their condition from family, friends, and themselves to avoid the stigma of depressions un-manliness. Problems that we think of as typically maledifficulty with intimacy, workaholism, alcoholism, abusive behavior, and rageare really attempts to escape depression. And these escape attempts only hurt the people men love and pass their condition on to their children.This groundbreaking book is the pathway out of darkness that these men and their families seek. Real reveals how men can unearth their pain, heal themselves, restore relationships, and break the legacy of abuse. He mixes penetrating analysis with compelling tales of his patients and even his own experiences with depression as the son of a violent, depressed father and the father of two young sons.

¿Cómo puedo entenderte? es un libro innovador, eminentemente útil, el libro que todas las parejas estaban esperando y que la sociedad actual necesita. No es una simple cura de urgencia, sino una revolucion, una guia incisiva que curara nuestro aislamiento y nuestra soledad y nos dotara de fuerzas para sacar a flote ese estado natural de intimidad que todos anhelamos. Valiendose de convincentes anecdotas que reflejan el dolor, la ternura y los conflictos que viven hombres y mujeres, al mismo tiempo nos muestra el esplendor de la relacion recuperada, Terrence Real sacudira hasta lo mas profundo nuestras convicciones acerca de la relacion amorosa y su naturaleza.Por fin un libro que analiza profundamente los fallos basicos de la relacion entre hombres y mujeres e indica la manera de repararlos.

From a superstar couples therapistand a maestro of interpersonal drama (The New York Times), this book offers solutions for attaining the healthy communication and emotional intimacy we all desire in our relationships.Bestselling author and nationally renowned therapist Terry Real unearths the causes of communication breakdowns between men and women in this groundbreaking guide to relationship repair. Relationships are in trouble; the demand for intimacy today must be met with new skills, and Realdrawing on his pioneering work on male depressiongives both men and women those skills, empowering women and connecting men, radically reversing the attitudes and emotional stumbling blocks of the patriarchal culture in which we were raised.Filled with powerful stories of the couples Real treats, How Can I Get Through to You? stands apart as a transformative relationship advice bookstraight-talking, compassionate, and deeply insightful in its innovative approach to healing emotional wounds and rebuilding trust between partners

THE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLERThe book that we all need Esther PerelA road map for all of us who seek true intimacy Gwyneth PaltrowA revolutionary guide to happy, thriving couplehood Lori GottliebNot much is harder than figuring out how to love your partner in all their messy humanness-and theres also not much thats more important.At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counsellor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools.In Us, Real shares his new science-backed skillset to transform your relationship into one thats based on compassion, collaboration and closeness. If you and your partner are backed into separate corners of you and me, or feel like you are living alone together, this book will show you the way back to us.

In his extraordinary new book, Terrence Real, distinguished therapist and bestselling author, presents a long overdue message that women need to hear: You arent crazyyoure right! Women have changed in the last twenty-five yearsthey have become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. They dont know how to respond to frustrated partners who just want their mates to show up and grow up.Enter the good news: In this revolutionary book, Real shows women how to master the new rules of twenty-first-century marriage by offering them a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship that they desire and deserve. He identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares practical strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship. Using his experience helping thousands of couples shift from despair to profound emotional closeness, Real guides you through the process of relationship repair with exercises that you can do alone or with your partner. With this program youll discover how to - identify and articulate your wants and needs - listen well and respond generously - set limits, and stand up for yourself - embrace and appreciate what you have - know when to seek outside helpThe New Rules of Marriage will introduce you to a radically new kind of relationship, one based on the idea that every woman has the power to transform her marriage, while men, given the right support, have it in them to rise to the occasion.We have never wanted so much from our relationships as we do today. More than any other generation, we yearn for our mates to be lifelong friends and lovers. The New Rules of Marriage shows us how to fulfill this courageous and uncompromising new vision.