Dude, You're Gonna Be a Dad!

There are approximately 3,712 ways for a guy to look stupid during pregnancy - this books here to help you avoid all(most) of them. And heres your first hint: Focus on what you can be doing for her rather than whats happening to her.

Shes pregnant. She knows that. You know that. And her 152 baby books tell her exactly what she can expect. Your job is to learn what you can do between the stick turning blue and the drive to the delivery room to make the next nine months go as smoothly as possible. Thats where John Pfeiffer steps in.

Like any good coach, hes been through it. Hes dealt with the morning sickness and doctor visits, painting the babys nursery and packing the overnight bag, choosing a name, hospital, and the color of the car-seat cover. All the while he remained positive and responsive - there with a "Youre beautiful" when necessary - but assertive during the decision-making process (he didnt want to wind up with a kid named Percy). And now its your turn.

She might be having the baby, but you have plenty of responsibilities.